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How do you get through it?

by jadey85, Nov 28, 2008 02:58AM
I have been through emotional, physical and verbal abuse with a man that controlled me. I believe it is my fault and have thoughts of suicide. I dont understand how people can be so clever and destroy a person. How do you get out of it?
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by margypops, Nov 28, 2008 07:54AM
To: jadey85
If you are still with him and he is still abusive you leave, one day you say to your self 'thats it I am not going to take this anymore my life has to be worth more than this."if you have children they go with you ,and if he is not abusive  to them you ensure he gets plenty of visitations as children do need their Dads .in their lives.Do not think of suicide think of making your life better get tough on your self speak to a counselor , get some help and advice and come here to us , we will help you here if we can .

by AnnaE, Nov 28, 2008 10:27PM
To: jadey85
Even IF it were in some way your fault, you now can stop it. Yes. it is an unbearable fact that people can destroy lives. Sometimes they get away with ut because the other person is vulnerable; this is particularly true if tje person has been abused previously.

Many of us have also experienced this. Please comfort and take care of youself. For your sake, you can leave the situation.

Join a support group, and sonsider counseling. Wite back for help and support.

Best,
Anna
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