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I am sure you have heard this before.

by 7709, Nov 28, 2008 04:06PM
Just joined yesterday. been trying to get a handle on this drinking thing. I have tried to stop several times. I am a all or nothing drinker. once I start i don't stop. I have told myself I can do this on my own. with just the support of my friends and partner. but, this time I am looking for support from people, that are going through what I am. I am fianlly going to see a someone and sit down and try and work on this. I am in day two and I already know what I am in for  the next several day... sleeping like **** ,cold sweats, mood swings. I have been down that road.  My problem is that once I start feeling better. I fall back.  I think some call it the "pink cloud"
Being performer in Vegas dose not help.
my grammer and spelling is really bad... I know. i sorry for lose who are reading this.
I guess what I am looking for is advice. or really some people out there to talk to. I need a good kick in the butt! I am sure you have all heard this story before. but a few words of encouragement. or really just tell me to stop and get my **** together would help.
:)

Member Comments (7)

by lboogie7729, Nov 28, 2008 06:58PM
To: 7709
The fact that you have the desire to stop, just the want, the wish to get help is a huge step in the right direction! Detoxing *****, I know! But simple things like keeping yourself hydrated (I've been drinking lots of water and Chinese herbal detox tea, caffeine free herbal teas, with honey and lemon are great) eating well (fresh fruit, veggies, soup, yogurt, not junk or fast food), getting your vitamins (alcohol depletes B vitamins and aggravates depression, supplements like GABA and 5-HTP can really help, do dome online research or visit a local natural health food store) trying to get enough good sleep, taking hot baths, reading and watching inspirational and educational subjects on the topics of addiction, detoxing, etc. writing and talking to people on sites like this will all definitely help. Check out an AA meeting. I said I never would but I've been to 2 so far and I'm looking forward to more. You may get a lot out of hearing other peoples perspectives and struggles and find that you can relate. A lot of colleges offer Community Psychological Services and they can assist in getting you an assessment, counseling/therapy to deal with why you drink and point you in the direction of services for a very reasonable fee. I'm throwing myself back into the gym, yoga and dance classes, things I loved but got away from while I drowned in alcohol! It's a long slow, sometime painful, sometimes serene and peaceful, always enlightening, roller coaster ride getting sober. But there is no better time than now and it is so worth it! Keep your head up and I'm wishing you the best!

by ibizan, Nov 28, 2008 08:21PM
To: 7709 and ib boogie
ib boogie......handsome dog there...boxer?boxer mix? and 7709- i started drinking at 14....drugs at 17...lot of pot,Valium then the last year of my using cocaine....i told myself at 19 i knew i was alcoholic and could control it....and i tried.....stopped and started and ping ponged back n'forth with alcohol and drugs and just lost control all over again and again and again.......then at age 28 i got tired of the blackouts loss of control and my way wasn't gonna work......so i entered inpatient got out went to AA/NA....i made myself do what i HAD to do not want i wanted to do....and it was a helluva mental wrestling match as all of u well know......and i changed who i hung out with no bars no parties.....and 25 years later i have such a peaceful life.....it is work but well worth it....i know there are a ton of AA meetings in Vegas..and most likely a union of sober musicians and entertainers i have read about these....u just haven't found them yet......u can get sober.....it is a committment...a pact one makes with themself!

by shelby001, Dec 02, 2008 09:29AM
To: 7709
hi!
i'm not an alcoholic (i take prescribtion drugs) but have been looking at this site because my brother and my dad were both alcoholics and well we all have the addiction bug.  anyway, i lost my dad to alcoholism and my brother was in ICU fro 3 weeks due to pacreatitis (sp) caused by alcohol.  their withdrawls were the ugliest thing i have ever witnessed.  it was so bad i wanted to give them alcohol just so they wouldn't have to go through the wd.  but of course i didn't.  DON'T GET IN THEIR SAME SITUATION!!!!  you can stop this, you have a lot of support here, we are all pulling for you.  get your life together and enjoy it without alcohol.  i am nearly clean from my pills, and i to need support and people to just stay STOP, you are ruining your life.  my father died, my brother is now clean and happy!
best of luck to you

by lboogie7729, Dec 02, 2008 05:38PM
To: ibizan
My little man is a full blooded Boston Terrier. He's so smart, well behaved and hilarious, but unfortunately my boyfriend is allergic so Logan lives out at my mom's with her gang of chihuahua's where he's the Big Man!
ibizan You made a good point about finding some kind of group or union of sober musicians/entertainers. That was one of the reasons I was happy to get away from the music scene after 3 years, because it really did facsilitate a lifestyle of staying wasted! I live in St. Louis, home of Anheuser-Busch, tons of alcoholics and plenty of meth heads, but I have feeling Vegas would be full of even more temptation! But no matter where we are at we still have the choice to be sober, or not. I wouldn't even use the term peer pressure, but just being around people or an environment that makes it tempting or 'socially acceptable' to be wasted is playing with fire, especialy early on. Spending some time alone has helped me, at least in the ealry stages of drying out. And people will scatter, sobriety lets you know who's real and who is too chickenshit to stick around. Don't let anyone phase you, I say that because I have to remind myself of that CONSTANTLY! Stay strong 7709 and anyone else reading this who is trying to get their life on track!

by driftersgal, Dec 02, 2008 08:43PM
I'm living with an alcoholic, and my natural father, my stepfather, and my mother were all alcoholics.  My mother said she quit drinking in 1974 (at times, I don't know if I believe what she told me).  Anyway, it's a rough road, but you can do it, if you want it badly enough.  Is there something that you can use to motivate yourself?  Attend meetings, and definitely keep coming to this site!  it's a great place--lots of support and encouragement to keep you on the right track.  I wish you all the luck!

by ibizan, Dec 02, 2008 10:21PM
To: iboogie7709
wow that appears to be a BIG boston there!a hilarious mind picture with him being gangleader for crew of littler guys!I have two retired greyhounds and 3 cats...been in2 them since 1993....my room and soulmates!U r so right on with sobriety being the litmus test for who really is a friend...many times ppl find out all they really had were a load of partying buds!I have read of sober musicians groups....for those who choose to stay in the industry....Aerosmith,Metallica lead singer James Hetfield,Bonnie Raitt to name a few got sober and stayed with their art...but for others it may be a impossiblity.And for all of us  YES it is a choice.....one of the best lifetime ones I made and comitted myself too!

by ckenny, Dec 04, 2008 10:21AM
hey.
i just turned 18 and i live with both my parents and they both are alcoholics.
all my life i have grown up around them drinking from the time they come home from work until they passed out in their bed.
it really hard to live everyday through this. so i know its hard for my parents to try and quit drinking but i dont understand why or how its so hard i mean i just fund out that im pregnant and im not married and still living at home and this would be my parents first grandchild but i dont wanna be around them drinking while im pregnant and espeacially after the babys born but i dont know how to tell them
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