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i'm not an alcoholic (i take prescribtion drugs) but have been looking at this site because my brother and my dad were both alcoholics and well we all have the addiction bug. anyway, i lost my dad to alcoholism and my brother was in ICU fro 3 weeks due to pacreatitis (sp) caused by alcohol. their withdrawls were the ugliest thing i have ever witnessed. it was so bad i wanted to give them alcohol just so they wouldn't have to go through the wd. but of course i didn't. DON'T GET IN THEIR SAME SITUATION!!!! you can stop this, you have a lot of support here, we are all pulling for you. get your life together and enjoy it without alcohol. i am nearly clean from my pills, and i to need support and people to just stay STOP, you are ruining your life. my father died, my brother is now clean and happy!
best of luck to you
ibizan You made a good point about finding some kind of group or union of sober musicians/entertainers. That was one of the reasons I was happy to get away from the music scene after 3 years, because it really did facsilitate a lifestyle of staying wasted! I live in St. Louis, home of Anheuser-Busch, tons of alcoholics and plenty of meth heads, but I have feeling Vegas would be full of even more temptation! But no matter where we are at we still have the choice to be sober, or not. I wouldn't even use the term peer pressure, but just being around people or an environment that makes it tempting or 'socially acceptable' to be wasted is playing with fire, especialy early on. Spending some time alone has helped me, at least in the ealry stages of drying out. And people will scatter, sobriety lets you know who's real and who is too chickenshit to stick around. Don't let anyone phase you, I say that because I have to remind myself of that CONSTANTLY! Stay strong 7709 and anyone else reading this who is trying to get their life on track!
i just turned 18 and i live with both my parents and they both are alcoholics.
all my life i have grown up around them drinking from the time they come home from work until they passed out in their bed.
it really hard to live everyday through this. so i know its hard for my parents to try and quit drinking but i dont understand why or how its so hard i mean i just fund out that im pregnant and im not married and still living at home and this would be my parents first grandchild but i dont wanna be around them drinking while im pregnant and espeacially after the babys born but i dont know how to tell them