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can anyone help answer ?
by NeedsHelp109, Nov 29, 2008 03:53PM
doctor i have hpv - my x gf got tested and she had it and then i got tested and had it and had all warts burned off ! she went in for some surgery to make sure it was not cancerouse ! they said she was okay and would not develop cancer ! does that mean i carrie the low stran ? like a year after me and her broke up i was drunk and had sex with a girl ! i ended up dateing her for years ! one night during sex she took the condom off me ! i didnt know what to say so i just did it ! i know it was wrong ! is she now infected ? is there a risk of her having cancer ? we have now been together almost 4 years and she has been starting to complain of very bad stomach and back pains also gets alot of uti's and has pain while we have intercourse ? why is this ? please tell me i did not give her cancer and what can i do to get her tested ? because i cant tell her ! she is scared to death of std's and aids ! she once had an abortion and i was for sure when she had that they would have told her she had hpv ! can she have problems having children ? can she get cervex cancer from this ? when she had the abortion is this something they would have noticed ? is there any medicin that can clear this for men ? does it ever go away ? i have dark areas on my penis and on my leg at the side of my balls that look like they can be warts is there anyway i can remove them withought going to the clinic cause i have no insurance and very little money ! anything you can tell me about this will really help cause i kno0w nothing about it ! i was tested when i was in the military and they didnt really explain anything to me they just spayed something on the warts and sent me on my way ! can i die from this ? can i kill anyone from this ? ive tryed to rip the one on my leg off and it just grows back ! is that normal ? you can respond here or at my email address ***@**** - any info will help ! ............. also if there are any women in the buffalo ny area that have hpv and have also been having truble having sex because they cant build the courage to tell there partner em,ail me i am now single and very horny dont know if i can say that here but its my best shot at this point cause i wont be able to find someone that will have sex with me if they dont have the viris
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there are many natural home remedies for warts. this does not mean you should try them because you may not even have warts. But if in fact you do have warts and cant afford medicine many people use a small amount of apple cider vinegar on a cotton swab. Fasten it over the wart with a band aid or by some means.
This does not mean that women will not be interested in you just because you have a common virus. Get your warts taken care of and if they do not come back forget about it. This far to common of a thing to stress out over in my opinion.
so knowing you have HPV and having unprotected sex with someone that dont know ur infected was wrong! but..
There are many different strans of hpv and yes some cause cancer of the cervix which are usually high risk strans and usually the gential wart strans are low risk...but she should go and have regular pap smears done to be safe.. She can also have the gardasil shots done which will protect from high and low risk strans but they are expencive $$$$, mine cost me $160 each for 3 shots.
There is no cure for Hpv, its a virus that feeds off ur immune system so some people that have a strong immune system can fight off the virus and never show signs of genital warts others get repeated out breaks,So its best to go to a doc and have them removed.
So for her pain during sex thats sounds like inflamaion of the bladder which is just pressure from your penis bumping her bladder,also it could be cause from her having the abortion done, in her belly and lower back those sound like UTIs, so make sure she drinks lots of water and pee regular because that will flush out the bacteria, she can also drink cranberry juice or take cranberry tablits which i find works best for me....also THE MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL...make sure she pees BEFORE and AFTER sex , that will make a BIG difference . it will help with the pain during sex and will help pervent UTIs. If you have to stop in the middle of sex for her to go pee..do it! It will be worth it for her !
She can still have a child IF she has hpv , if she has warts in her vagina or cervix they can be removed before she give birth or just have a C section, some cases when a baby passes through the vagina they can develop warts in there throut or lungs, but im sure she will be checked for that if she becomes prego.
Hpv is something your not going to die from unless its high risk and you develop cancer thats not caught in time, (not to scare you or anything) thats why she should go for regular paps and you reg check ups...
So know that your single U HAVE to be honest with you partner its her decision wheather she want to take the risk and have sex with you! When you have a STD you have to think about other people feelings before your own before you ingage in sex. ALLWAYS use a CONDOM this will help protect your partner ,Not fully, but it will HELP, so if a woman takes ur condom off again and she dont know you have HPV u slip anotherone one! BE responsible!
hope i helped!