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i thought i was welcome here i have made maybe to freinds on here.u lot all have ur clicks i never seem to get replys!

by hannah1505, Nov 29, 2008 07:10PM
were all going thru the same things here but some ppl seem to be more welcome here that others i try to have a convo with ppl cuz it helps so much but it never happens to me apart from a few people u all got ur own clicks
i support and reply to any one im going to look for another site
i have made a few good freinds on here they no who they are and tina does her best to reply

i needed to tell u sorry!
Member Comments (26)

by Sexykeme78, Nov 29, 2008 07:13PM
To: Hannah1505
How are you doing? Are you ttc#1?

by hannah1505, Nov 29, 2008 07:18PM
yeah i just replyed on your thread
im 21 my partner is 21 in a week we have been tryin about 13 month hardest time of my life so far but i am young and possitive it will happen i just needed a bit of support
and just venting on her helps i do try
but never seem to ge a response even though i always reply to ppl
thanx for your repy whats your story x

by leighanne143, Nov 29, 2008 07:21PM
are you part of any specific groups?  We have an awsome thread going that welcome every one.  I beleive the headline is we are women here us roar or something of the sort.  one of the ladies tracks everyones cycle day each day and some of us have gotten BFP's and still keep in touch with each other.  they are all great ladies and are very supportive of new people.  Check it out

by leighanne143, Nov 29, 2008 07:22PM
the headline is we are women of strength.  Check it out,.

by hannah1505, Nov 29, 2008 07:25PM
thanks leighanne thats kind of u i must say u have prob replied to me a lot one of the most so thanks xx ill have a look x

by hannah1505, Nov 29, 2008 07:26PM
and i never nw there was groups on here thought everyone was one big ttc group xx

by Sexykeme78, Nov 29, 2008 07:26PM
Im 30yrs old me an my hubby have been trying for 3yrs on our own but now im seeing a fertilty doctor for 3 months I found out that we both are fine an we can have kids so i think its a timing thing. Hopefully i will see a BFP next month.
Are you seeing any doctor yet?        

by hannah1505, Nov 29, 2008 07:28PM
yeah but cuz im young thats all i here duz my hed in
i no how old i am lol
im glad i started young so far so good all my test have been good im canging docs hopefully my new one willunderstand xx

by leighanne143, Nov 29, 2008 07:28PM
hannah well it is not a group per se but it is a thread that we keep running and many of us are the same but so many new people pop in.  After my 2nd MC, i found this specific thread and they have been great.  pop in and tell a little bit about yourself and watch the support you get.  we fill up a thread so fast that we have to make a new one often.

by hannah1505, Nov 29, 2008 07:30PM
i didnt mean it direct to your thread its good that these theads exist
just feel a bit down thats all i no we all do
apart from you congrats i think i sed it when u sed u was preg xx
but congrats again x

by kikicoates78, Nov 29, 2008 07:32PM
Hannah~ maybe it is when you are posting, I know alot of people are not on during the weekends, I know I'v responded to some of your threads, I try to stop by this forum and give EVERYONE my support, I try not to say too much b/c I was fortunate enough to get my BFP after 5 yrs of trying, and I know sometimes it hurts when someone else is pregnant and replying. I do know how frusterating TTC is , like I said been there 5 yrs, it take time, but I can offer this all the hurt, tears and pain are worth it in the end, Good luck hon.

by leighanne143, Nov 29, 2008 07:35PM
my journey was rough also hannah.  i had 2 MC's within a 5 month span and had to go throguh 2 d and c surgeries and then tons of genetic testing to find out there was nothing wrong.  luckily this next pregnancy stuck.  i am almost 28 weeks.

have you had MC's during your 13 months of TTC?  have you talked to your doctor about testing to see why maybe you are not conceving?

by hannah1505, Nov 29, 2008 07:43PM
i am not sayin anyones jorney was easy and im not saying that noone has ever replied
im sayin i hardly get any response
and yeas we do all need support
just carnt belive it took this thread to actually get ppl to talk to me properly
and u ppl who are preg after how ever long
are our stength and hope to keep us going
it amazes me how i feel like givin up and 5 yrs later u never and look what u have
ur a superstar
and leighanne i followed ur story brfor u was preg felt ur hurt in every thing u sed now look u kept going ur insperations

and i go docs but get same reply im young im hate hearing it!!

xx

by leighanne143, Nov 29, 2008 07:49PM
oh i did not mean it to sound like that. now i feel bad.  

I just did not remember if i had spoken to you directly or not,  I talk to so many women and it gets hard to keep everyone seperated sometimes.

if i heard the young thing one more time i might have punched someone.

with my 2nd MC, we had an ultrasound and found the baby did not develop.  the ultrasound tech looked at me and said stop crying, you are young, you will have a baby.  I wanted to kill her.  how dare you tell someone to stop crying.  the pain is no different whether you are 21, 31 or 41.  it all hurts the same.  I swore for months that i was "broken" and now here i sit with only 12 more weeks to go before the little guy gets here.  dont let them tell you that you are young.  they need to run the tests to see if it is something mior like progesterone, or PCOS or even a clotting disorder that is easy correctable.

by hannah1505, Nov 29, 2008 08:05PM
i dnt even no if i had a mc
they just sed it did not test or nothing was horrible
have i ever been preg i dunno

i have had hoemones tested there fine
hde ovulation test that was fine and had a scan for pcos and thank god that was ok to
dan had his semen test it as a bit less than average but was ok

i think there is something up with my horemones twice i have told them i have had sore boobs for 2 months none stop to the point were i wanna cry
i keep crying but i feel delicate with everything going on
my nips are swole
i also have been late for af 2 months in a row like 5 days late arrggghhh
but same responce im doing it wrong im young relax
how do ppl expect me to relax when i dont no whats going on
the only joy i get is thinking of names cuddles and what my baby will look like lol
i dunno whats going on to be honest this site is what i used to look to ans were i got a lot of ansews from but since i been back i never had a responce i no u didnt mean it in a bad way dont feel bad i wanna make freinds on her not make um feel bad lol and congrats id love a lil boy dan wants twins lucky for him there in my family my grandad is one and i was my twin died before we was born
we have picked names for a bot and a girl twin i feel sad sometimes but i no im not just exited and cor wait xxx

by leighanne143, Nov 29, 2008 08:14PM
twins run on my side but thankfully i am only having one.  i thnk twins is a lot of work. OMG your twin died before birth?  that is so said.

are you both taking vitamins and eating healthy?  are your using the over the counter ovualtion kits?  they help to pinpoint your most 2 fertile days.


the best thing to do and i had to do it, was to not think negative and project only positive.  they say positive things happen to those that think positive.  Karma is a strange thing.  after my 2nd MC i did a lot of pitty me and kept asking myself why me.  after i while i had to stop thinking that way and started to think positive and lots of good  things started happen.  Just somethin to try.

well i have had a logn day on my feet and am about to crash.  hopefully i will talk to you tomorrow or the next time i am on:)

by hannah1505, Nov 29, 2008 08:19PM
thankyou leighanne ur an insperation
im taking evening primrose oil

but i dont no what to eat or what to take

we tried the kits but we felt like we was doing it for the sake of it and we felt pressurised

and we wanna enjoy it lol x
spk soon keep in touch x

and yeah it was a girl i had a sis
she is watchin over me xx

well i hope so ......

by fifi200, Nov 29, 2008 10:14PM
To: hannah
hello,how are u? i just read through ur post and smilled over it cos i know what u are talking about.actually what happens here is that when u put a post,people usually read to find similarities ie what they've experience.if u put a post about ivf and i've never been through that route,i won't have mch to offer.anyway,it's good u expressed ur concerns.we are all here for thesame purpose.some of us don't have any shoullders to cry onto except here in the forum.don't get discouraged,keep posting.
hope u have ur bfp soon

by leighanne143, Nov 30, 2008 07:02AM
just eating healthy and taking a daily vitamin also helps. lots of fruits and vegetables and meats with protein is what you should eat.

even if you do not use the ovulatuion tracking you can use your body as an ovulation tracker.  you can look up different signs of ovulation.  I know many women right before they ovulate get a different type of cervical